About Me

I’m Kirk — a certified Inner Aspect Coach.

My background begins with 15 year career in Financial Software development after 4 years as an Electrical Engineer major and initial job as lead network tech. My hobbies included D&D, MMORPG’s, reading all about brain science and quantum physics, and writing science fiction. My twenty years of ontological and communication training set the foundation for several years of personally working with the Inner Aspect method. My formal training as a somatic life and relationship coach also included delving into the manifestation of my autism and it's patterns. My training provides the complete structure to integrate that with all my left brain experience to relate to your world. Let’s apply a trauma informed coaching tool-set to help you discover solutions to some of your life’s persistent glitches.

Additional Training:

  • Listening (Landmark)

  • Coaching participants on creating community projects

  • Leading seminars

  • Group and meeting facilitation

  • 'Healthy Relationship and Sex Education'-Planned Parenthood curriculum

  • Cacao Practitioner

  • Tantra

  • Shamanism

  • Taoist Energy Cultivation

  • Breathing-martial arts practices and spiritual practice

  • Attachment Styles

  • Anti-aging

  • Team Leadership


  • Committed to making a difference for others

  • Bachelors in Mathematics, Comp Sci minor.

  • Tau Beta Pi engineering honor Society, student member

  • 25 year marriage

  • Dungeon master, Sci-fi writer (unpublished)

  • Rinzai Zen Buddhist Sesshins

  • Software Best Practices Study Group

  • Coaching people on personal/ community projects

  • Coordinated with Czech Republic software development team

  • Special Education teaching license, specializing in Autism

  • Developed "Interrupting Patterns", a one-time zoom workshop on relationships

  • High School teacher of Algebra, Physics, Chemistry, Biology, 3D modeling and printing.

  • Founder of a local men's group

  • In sacred service at a local temple