Kirk Allen

• Cacao practitioner training

• Tantra

• Shamanism

• Taoist energy cultivation

• Breathing practices from martial arts and Tantra/Tao

• Attachment Styles

• Anti-aging

• Team Leadership

• Committed to making a difference for others.

• Bachelors in Mathematics with a minor in Computer Science.

• Student member of Tau Beta Pi Engineering Honor Society

• Married for 25 years.

• Dungeon master and sci-fi writer (unpublished)

• Rinzai Zen Buddhist Sesshins

• Software Best Practices Study Group

• Experienced in coaching people on personal/ community projects

• Coordinated with a software development team in Czech Republic

• Hold a Special Education teaching license, specializing in Autism

• Developed Interrupting Patterns, a one-time Zoom workshop on romantic relationships

• Taught high school Algebra, Physics, Chemistry, Biology, 3D modeling and printing.

• Founder of a Southern Oregon men's group

• In sacred service at a local temple

I’m Kirk — a certified Inner Aspect Coach.

• Listening (Landmark Worldwide)

• Coaching participants in creating community projects

• Leading seminars

• Group and meeting facilitation

• Taught Healthy Relationship and Sex Education (Planned Parenthood curriculum)

Additional Training:

My services

Decoding Relationships

There is not just one right design to design an intimate relationship or even work relationships, or to heal from past trauma. Together, we will identify the repeating neurological patterns you’ve developed and help you build upgraded routines for who you are now. This is a powerful, adaptable process that goes deep while keeping moving toward goals you set.

If you are experiencing any of the following, this method may be ideal for you:

• The unclarity of whether to stay or go into a relationship

• Loss of spark in relationship or life

• Inability to relax

• Facing difficulties with trust or conflict resolution.

• A sense of being kidnapped by your reactions

• Confusion about recurring issues romantic life

• Self-doubt, shame, lack of self-worth

• Confusion around decision making

• Couples wanting to connect at a more meaningful level.

Format

Sessions are 2 hours long to allow for deep exploration and integration. They are conducted via Zoom (Pacific Time) or in person, and do not include touch. Sessions build upon each other.

Here's what my clients say

"Kirk is an excellent coach! He helped me understand parts of myself that were causing me a lot of pain unconsciously and he did so in a way that was imaginative and kind. I really feel he is a great listener and wise in what he sees about you. I still have the mantra of my inner Paladin taped to my monitor!

Because we are both gamers, he was able to speak right to my heart. He understands that I think about my inner world in terms of wizards, witches and leveling up. That meant his coaching resonated on a deep level for me and was really fun! "

Client Experiences

Josh

Local Ceremonies

Offerings in my Ashland, Oregon home temple space:

Cacao ceremonies featuring Guatemalan ceremonial-grade cacao.

Oracle readings especially focused on loved ones who have passed and life path guidance.

Photo from Kavita McMillan's "Wake the Heart"